School Violence Help
Paul Branson
February 26, 2010
Sadly, we live in a world where relationships, marriages, mother, father to daughter and mother, father to son hostility, tempers and tensions are running high. Most people of all ages do not appear to communicate with love, peace, respect or patience. Even on Twitter, MySpace, Facebook the apparent choice of words and attitudes borders threatening. This is creating a social and family void where children, tween, teens and adults male and female are in need of positive building blocks, role-models, friendly counseling, advice and effective solutions and support.
School bullying even in kindergarten and primary school ages are at an all time high. In January, 2010 the Dailyrecordco.uk headlined: "Fears over Rise in Violence at Schools Involving Weapons"
This is eleven years after the loss and evil displayed in the United States Columbine Shooting where two senior students massacred 12 brave Students and one Teacher. It is as if teenagers and adults of all ages are burnt-out on friendly communications, relationships and living. Now we are experiencing as a world all types of violence such as domestic violence, gun violence, gang violence, marital violence, teen violence, youth violence and even child violence.
Perhaps we all need to go back to basics and start with one word - forgiveness and use it gently throughout every relationship, friendship or communication whether good or bad with patience. Treat it like a handshake with positive words and action.
THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS
Do you know the power of forgiveness? Forgiveness is a very powerful tool! It is also a natural part of living and life. In fact, most people at some point will experience forgiving someone in their life. That person could well be a son, daughter, mother, father, relative or your closest friend.
Forgiveness is a natural requirement and without it you will only bottle up the pain, hurt, loss and anger within until you self-destruct in stress or depression or explode. People and parents regardless of their education or financial status are no different to any other person alive on planet earth. They do make mistakes and most are willing to admit it - so try not to be too hard on your expectations or demands of those you know, communicate with or love.
NO ONE IS PERFECT
Have you ever met anyone that is perfect? Yet, are we as a world of people patient or tolerant of the imperfection's of others? Violence and abuse largely stems from rejection, feeling hurt, pain within, we all strike out even with our mouths in anger because we cannot handle yet another disagreement, break-up, divorce, bad-grades, disappointment, failure or someone leaving us behind.
I am NO specialist in this area and one should always seek specialist advice. So just take this as an article on how to reduce or end violence which makes perfect sense to start - within. Start with you as the solution to peace, harmony and non-confrontational behavior no matter what anyone family, friend or foe says, takes or does. Can you do that? Can you stand strong enough to say to yourself I am a non-violent activist. I am now stronger within today than I was yesterday or have ever been. My past is my past and all I have now is my present and future and to this I will correct, live, love and move forward day by day in peace within and around.
If you can breathe or utter these words you can overcome and lay down violence for forgiveness - today. Tell yourself I am sorry. Then ask the world of people (out loud) to forgive you of any imperfections and sins. Then arise, stand within and move valiantly into all of your tomorrows. Well done!
No matter what, no-one has the right to judge or blame anyone on planet earth. Living in this world for the best of us is tough and getting harder as the days go by. As Mahatma Ghandi wrote and lived: "Nonviolence is not a garment to be put on and off at will. Its seat is in the heart, and it must be an inseparable part of our being."
If we all as human-beings cannot lay down violence, disrespect, anger and abuse how will we as children, teens, tweens or adults be happy or win? I assume most of us desire to win in life. We want to be popular, established, intelligent, famous, reliable, friendly, patient, confident, strong and fearless. Violence plays no part in any of us achieving a global winning solution whether in relationships, at home, in the office or play-ground.
I hope that the twittering, urban dictionary, Hip Hop, Rock, Violent Video Games, lifestyles, communication, words and languages every individual chooses has one thing in common - no violence.
No matter what forget, live and love again.
Join MOTY AWARDS http://moty-awards.ning.com
School bullying even in kindergarten and primary school ages are at an all time high. In January, 2010 the Dailyrecordco.uk headlined: "Fears over Rise in Violence at Schools Involving Weapons"
This is eleven years after the loss and evil displayed in the United States Columbine Shooting where two senior students massacred 12 brave Students and one Teacher. It is as if teenagers and adults of all ages are burnt-out on friendly communications, relationships and living. Now we are experiencing as a world all types of violence such as domestic violence, gun violence, gang violence, marital violence, teen violence, youth violence and even child violence.
Perhaps we all need to go back to basics and start with one word - forgiveness and use it gently throughout every relationship, friendship or communication whether good or bad with patience. Treat it like a handshake with positive words and action.
THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS
Do you know the power of forgiveness? Forgiveness is a very powerful tool! It is also a natural part of living and life. In fact, most people at some point will experience forgiving someone in their life. That person could well be a son, daughter, mother, father, relative or your closest friend.
Forgiveness is a natural requirement and without it you will only bottle up the pain, hurt, loss and anger within until you self-destruct in stress or depression or explode. People and parents regardless of their education or financial status are no different to any other person alive on planet earth. They do make mistakes and most are willing to admit it - so try not to be too hard on your expectations or demands of those you know, communicate with or love.
NO ONE IS PERFECT
Have you ever met anyone that is perfect? Yet, are we as a world of people patient or tolerant of the imperfection's of others? Violence and abuse largely stems from rejection, feeling hurt, pain within, we all strike out even with our mouths in anger because we cannot handle yet another disagreement, break-up, divorce, bad-grades, disappointment, failure or someone leaving us behind.
I am NO specialist in this area and one should always seek specialist advice. So just take this as an article on how to reduce or end violence which makes perfect sense to start - within. Start with you as the solution to peace, harmony and non-confrontational behavior no matter what anyone family, friend or foe says, takes or does. Can you do that? Can you stand strong enough to say to yourself I am a non-violent activist. I am now stronger within today than I was yesterday or have ever been. My past is my past and all I have now is my present and future and to this I will correct, live, love and move forward day by day in peace within and around.
If you can breathe or utter these words you can overcome and lay down violence for forgiveness - today. Tell yourself I am sorry. Then ask the world of people (out loud) to forgive you of any imperfections and sins. Then arise, stand within and move valiantly into all of your tomorrows. Well done!
No matter what, no-one has the right to judge or blame anyone on planet earth. Living in this world for the best of us is tough and getting harder as the days go by. As Mahatma Ghandi wrote and lived: "Nonviolence is not a garment to be put on and off at will. Its seat is in the heart, and it must be an inseparable part of our being."
If we all as human-beings cannot lay down violence, disrespect, anger and abuse how will we as children, teens, tweens or adults be happy or win? I assume most of us desire to win in life. We want to be popular, established, intelligent, famous, reliable, friendly, patient, confident, strong and fearless. Violence plays no part in any of us achieving a global winning solution whether in relationships, at home, in the office or play-ground.
I hope that the twittering, urban dictionary, Hip Hop, Rock, Violent Video Games, lifestyles, communication, words and languages every individual chooses has one thing in common - no violence.
No matter what forget, live and love again.
Join MOTY AWARDS http://moty-awards.ning.com
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